CharmDate, an international dating website, warns people in relationships about the latest dating trend – “delicate dumping” and points out all the reasons why this trend is wrong and should not be practiced.
“Delicate dumping” is a slow and painful way to end a relationship without actually breaking up. People who are not brave enough to break up are using this way to end relationships, without thinking of the consequences. Namely, they display cold behavior towards their partners, start replying slowly to text messages, avoid calls, or completely ghost people they are dating, leaving them wondering what happened.
Why is “Delicate Dumping” a Wrong Way to End a Relationship?
When people in a relationship do not get along well anymore or simply don’t feel like being together, it is okay to end the relationship for good. Sometimes, only one person feels the need to become single and that’s okay too, as long as they end it respectfully.
“Delicate dumping” is not a respectful way to part ways with someone. It is a selfish method to avoid confrontation and sincerity and it equals with the lack of bravery.
It causes long-term emotional damage
Breaking up with someone “delicately” leaves long-lasting emotional damage. While the person who is slowly quitting the relationship perhaps already has everything clear in their mind, the person who is getting ghosted does not. After being abandoned, they tend to overthink or even blame themselves for the way the relationship ended. Not only does “delicate dumping” makes them lose trust and affect their future relationship but it also impacts their confidence and can affect them negatively in other aspects of their lives.
The latest dating trend shows immaturity
Mature people do not avoid difficult situations in order to get out of a difficult, continuous cycle. For that reason, they are honest about their feelings and thoughts and they are certain about breaking up. On the other hand, “delicate dumping” shows irresponsibility. It demonstrates that the person is not strong enough mentally to manage or initiate challenges so that they would rather run away than face problems and solve them fairly.
The chapter never fully closes
“Delicate dumping” always leaves the door open to assumptions and possibilities. Considering that relationships don’t finish after a conversation or a mutual conclusion, one or both sides can always go back to it and analyze what went wrong or why did it end in such a cold-hearted way. For that reason, narcissists often tend to break up by ghosting because they do not think of other people’s feelings and they prefer to think they may have a chance to go back to their ex-partners if they ever change their minds, without taking into account any damage they are causing.
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